Relationship Compatibility for the Monkey
Which Lunar Animal sign best suits the Monkey, when it comes to relationships?
Relationship compatibility within the Chinese Zodiac mostly takes into account the general characteristics for each animal. However, every individual will place their own unique twist on the basic characteristics. That being said, it’s always fun to read about how well (or not well) you match with your partner!
Read on to learn the compatibility of the Monkey with other Animal Lunar Signs.
MONKEY PARTNER + RAT PARTNER: 90%
The Monkey and Rat partnership is one of the best combinations able to work structurally together. The Monkey is an outstanding thinker, which the Rat will be very proud of, while the Rat will be a competent and cheerful partner. The Rat will be able to get the delightful but wandering Monkey to settle down and the Monkey will adore the Rat’s attributes dearly. These two partners will be always looking out for desirable qualities in each other, and their life together will be fulfilling, satisfying and financially prosperous.
The Rat and the Monkey may find it difficult to focus because of the Monkey’s short attention span and the Rat’s constant multitasking, but the Monkey’s optimism will be a good balance to the Rat’s pessimistic outlook. If these two support each other through thick and thin, they will both be able to reach new heights and enjoy a sparkling relationship.
MONKEY PARTNER + OX PARTNER: 81%
These two may seem too contradictory in character to have a successful relationship, but strangely enough, they can complement each other. Both love success and money, yet both are different in the directions and methods they use to get what they want. The Ox is attracted to the Monkey’s intelligence while the Monkey feels grounded by the Ox’s stability.
However, these two partners can sometimes be too arrogant and dynamic to live together happily. While the Monkey is an extrovert, who stands out naturally in a crowd, the Ox is an introvert and discreet. The Monkey partner is authoritative and may consider his Ox partner lacklustre and unimaginative.
Although both sides of the relationship have superb positive attributes, very seldom have they the chance to display them. Even though the Ox is often oppressed by the Monkey, the Ox will not easily bow down when pointing out the Monkey’s flaws and negativities. Both sides of the game have to possess great control to achieve a mutual understanding.
MONKEY PARTNER + TIGER PARTNER: 81%
This relationship might not compliment any party although they share some similarities. They are big spenders, outgoing, and vivacious. Equally intelligent and self-confident, the Tiger might not be impressed with the Monkey and might even fight for dominance or being equal partners in a relationship. The Monkey is quite emotional at times and could feel unappreciated. The differences stem from their view on life. The Tiger loves freedom and ambitious, while the Monkey also enjoys freedom but also likes to spend time playing. Due to this, the Tiger partner tends to feel like they are the only one putting any effort forth.
This pair is not a very pleasant combination and they both may not find much relief in this relationship. Both the Monkey and Tiger are very similar in the sense that they both are very ambitious and have high self-esteem, the element “I” is always present in their thoughts. Hence it is not easy for them to get along as the Tiger can be egotistical when the Monkey does not give way while the Monkey himself is cunning in his actions. Both might always be in doubt and are secretive with each other. For this relationship to succeed, one has to be more powerful to pose control on the other. If not properly executed, a struggle may occur between this pair. These two will have great time together, but they need to be careful about arguments.
In a Monkey husband and Tiger wife relationship, the rivalry between them may cause many problems in their relationship.
In a Monkey wife and Tiger husband relationship, her humor tends to overcome many tense situations that arise between them. She likes a lot of friends, while he prefers for her to spend more time with him. Things make work out if they both cooperate and make compromises.
MONKEY PARTNER + RABBIT PARTNER: 73%
Hostilities may develop in this relationship. The Monkey’s self inflated opinion of himself may make the Rabbit feel put down; on top of that, the Monkey is always irritated by the Rabbit’s anxiety and brooding. They are both able to look through others, which may put their relationship on the rocks as they may not find anything interesting in each other. These two are not a desirable match unless there is something to gain from the commitment, which will encourage both of them to cooperate. Although they make excellent friends, when it comes to romance, everything that made them the best of friends is what pulls them apart.
Both sides in this relationship have a totally different attitude toward life. While the Monkey is an innovative thinker as well as a captivating performer in life, the Rabbit may be somewhat superficial besides being polite and friendly. The Monkey very often needs a lot of care and praise in order to be charming and in love always. The Rabbit in contrast is reserved in nature rather than actively searching for pleasure. The Monkey enjoys a life filled with dispute and controversy while the other dislikes rebellion. However, both are realistic and willing to take the step to make changes to keep the flame alight.
In a Rabbit husband and Monkey wife relationship, their relationship works on their love for theoretical conversations. He dislikes changes or unexpected surprises while she likes the total opposite. He may a little rigid for her taste, but she will admit defeat when she is wrong.
In a Rabbit wife and Monkey husband relationship, she finds it difficult to put up with his flirting nature. She will need to learn how to open up and give up some of her quiet ways. He may be irresponsible in certain areas, but he does remember all the little things that makes her happy, although he may forget some major events.
MONKEY PARTNER + DRAGON PARTNER: 82%
The Dragon is drawn to the Monkey’s charisma and the Monkey admires the Dragon’s leadership. They are both ambitious and career minded, making them a wonderful couple. Together, they will explore and lead a very exciting life. This is an ideal match, both romantically and mentally.
Both are more than willing to work hand in hand for a lasting and successful relationship. Both are positive, aggressive, and ambitious and at the same time very observant. The Monkey is skilful and intelligent, while the Dragon is energetic and has great willpower. Both will make full use of their attributes to complement each other. The Monkey’s love for challenges has the support of the Dragon throughout. This amazing pair will pamper one another, work harmoniously and have great understanding with each other.
MONKEY PARTNER + SNAKE PARTNER: 57%
Both signs are scheming and competitive. The relationship can turn into a battle of wills and wits. The Monkey will provoke the Snake’s anger easily and since the Snake is not forgiving, the Snake will disapprove of the Monkey quickly. The Monkey will always find ways to challenge the Snake while the Snake is ambitious and is set on having his way. Quite a lot of effort may be needed to sustain this relationship as both are naturally jealous and suspicious. The Monkey is outgoing, innovative and energetic while the Snake is motivated, sophisticated and persevering.
Even when each has their own positive attributes, they tend to expose the weaknesses of one another. They seem to bring out the worst in each other. For this relationship to work, both will have to be mutually genuine and upfront.
MONKEY PARTNER + HORSE PARTNER: 31%
Adaptability and flexibility are the attributes of both partners. Both are also outgoing, independent and practical individuals who can work along with one another if they choose to because they both have swift minds and strong abilities. The advantage of this match is the very fact that they can coexist seeing the needs of a well-balanced relationship.
They are both adaptable and intelligent enough to leap over obstacles to success. While the Horse is practical and opportunistic, the Monkey can be deceitful. The Monkey is versatile and skillful and the Horse may annoy the Monkey with his temperamental traits. Neither have the patience to withstand each other’s differences. Hence, they will have to put away their self-centered personalities to strengthen their ties as a couple.
MONKEY PARTNER + SHEEP PARTNER:: 65%
The Sheep may not be too attracted to the Monkey’s complicated and egoistic nature. The Monkey’s craftiness and expertise only serves to annoy the Sheep. The Monkey cannot keep up with the Sheep’s unreasonable demands, but the Sheep is clever enough to use the Monkey’s weak points to manipulate the Monkey.
The Sheep may be too demanding and possessive over the Monkey for the crafty Monkey to endure. While the Monkey possesses excellent patience, the Monkey may still find more flaws than virtues in the Sheep. The Monkey more often than not does not take the Sheep seriously as he takes advantage of the Sheep’s kind and giving nature. Hence, the Sheep stands to lose out more in this relationship as opposed to the Monkey. All in all, they both live in separate worlds.
MONKEY PARTNER + MONKEY PARTNER: 85%
This pair could be long lasting as long as jealousy does not appear for both. They are both equally as intelligent, but their intelligence is rather street-smart than book-smart. If both can share rather than fight, they can achieve much more together. Cooperation is the key in this combination if both want this to work. As they are both identical, they can live harmoniously so long as they do not fight over petty issues and remain loyal during hardship.
The Monkey may at times get jealous over their partners flirtatious ways, however it may be of no surprise that they both have similar practices! They may individually express selfish characteristics, but it is only an extension of their scheme-y ways, and they mean no harm by it.
Playful and intelligent, you will see a Monkey pair either extremely successful or the total opposite. They are by nature go-getters and will not stop when they set their minds to something. However, what if their wants are the total opposite – will they part ways?
Charming, a Monkey couple should devote as much time and energy into their relationship as they do tending to themselves individually. That boyish charm, or girlish attraction, will not last forever. If 2 Monkeys were to find each other captivating and hence pair up, they should work on it.
MONKEY PARTNER + ROOSTER PARTNER: 72%
This is a rather rough one as both their commanding personalities may clash more than them being able to collaborate as both want recognition and praise. He cannot withstand her love for argument while she finds him too cocky to even bother about her, let alone abide by her advice. The Monkey likes to get his work done with no fuss. He possesses abilities of resourcefulness and distinctiveness. The Rooster lady may be efficient but fussy at the same time. She has the natural inclination to point out his flaws. Both will not enjoy this roller coaster ride unless they can let go of their ego while taking the middle path.
The only thing that will keep this marriage together will be from having common goals. This will create the want and desire to work with one another. Apart from that, both Animal signs will constantly conflict.
They both have the gift of speech, one having a more sarcastic tone than the other. The Rooster can talk in a structured and argumentative manner, whereas the Monkey may talk in a manner which will perhaps provoke the Rooster.
MONKEY PARTNER + DOG PARTNER: 67%
The Monkey is bright, productive and outgoing. The Dog partner is agreeable and is more than willing to cooperate if he sincerely wants this relationship to work. The Monkey partner will be very appreciative if his Dog partner is not too ambitious and tries to outperform him as the Monkey is generally more motivated and ambitious than the Dog is. Although the Dog will be in awe of the Monkey’s talents and personality, he could also have a negative view of the Monkey’s undesirable traits. Other the other hand, the Monkey may find the Dog’s rousing and open-minded qualities restricting at times. However, these two can enjoy a good marriage as both are well-balanced and can keep the relationship going.
The potential disharmony in this union could be avoided if both partners are tolerant and forgiving of one another’s deficiencies. The wily Monkey will appreciate the sensible Dog’s responsiveness to logic and intelligence, and the Dog will appreciate the Monkey’s independence, charm and wit. Where mutual understanding becomes necessary is their approach to materialism – the Monkey’s need for luxury may clash with the Dog’s idealism, since the Monkey values wealth and the Dog, principles.
MONKEY PARTNER + PIG PARTNER: 81%
The Pig is very devoted to his loved ones, usually blindly. Hence, the Monkey capitalizes on that to take advantage of the Pig. The Pig is usually robust in its pursuits but while the Pig benefits from the Monkey’s monetary expertise and craftiness, the Pig is often not impressed with the Monkey taking advantage of his love display. The Monkey dislikes the Pig’s overgenerous kindness which is at his expense and is not very impressed with the Pig doing charity and benefiting others. Both sides of the game may need to level up their efforts to coincide with one another.
Theirs is a fairly staid union, with the scrupulous Pig unable to understand the complicated Monkey, who finds the Pig’s honesty a little too dull. On the other hand, the Monkey’s charm which usually appeals to other signs, may be too complex and pretentious for the straightforward Pig. Whilst conflicts appear to be a certainty, the union can in fact be quite civil. For this odd pairing of signs to work, both signs need to focus on the other’s positive qualities.
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Interesting to see the Rat being the best for a Monkey.
But suppose the Monkey is Water, and the Rat is Fire.
Would the relationship fall apart because of the elements?
Or can the two signs stay together despite the elements?
I have the same question too. We’ve been a year together,but most of times we are apart, long-distance relationship due to work. Every 3 mths I fly to his place. So far, my Rat man is the only one who truly understands me. We really understand each other’s mind & actions at great depths. We seem to grow together..