The main characteristics of a Dragon

Many Chinese believe that life will be more exciting when a Dragon is born into their family. If there are three Dragons within the family, they believe that they are blessed with incredible luck and prosperity. There may be some truth in their belief. Those born in the year of the Dragon have irrepressible energy, blinding determination and incredible self-confidence. They excel in all that they set their minds to and continuously raise their standards as they age.

You will not see a Dragon depending on others; they pride themselves on being self-reliant and independent. They don’t fare well being bound by people, places or even the laws of the land.

Strengths

The Chinese believe that the Dragon symbolizes power, wealth and authority. It may be of no coincidence that those born in the year of the Dragon do reflect those qualities. Dragons are gifted with beauty, brains and an imagination many would envy. They exude a presence that commands attention, which stems from their inherent need for self-respect and self-sufficiency.

The public’s perception of the Dragon will never cease to conflict with who they truly are. Behind the Dragon’s hot-tempered words lays a cause he’s deeply passionate about. Behind the Dragon’s selfishness lays a strong moral code. Behind the Dragon’s controlling streak lays his energetic drive for success.

The Dragon is strong, energetic and a natural go-getter. He will seize any opportunity even if it involves a little risk. That extraordinary self-confidence supports his ability to be decisive in situations others may find distressing.

Dragons are also ambitious, determined and natural born leaders. They enjoy their independence and have the confidence, fortitude and drive to pioneer great things and forge ahead to uncharted territory.

Weaknesses

The Dragon’s risk-taking streak may cause them to find themselves in situations more dangerous than exciting. However, this doesn’t seem to trouble the Dragon; in fact he thrives on challenges.

The impatience of the Dragon will mean that they will work harder than their peers. They want to see results in their work and in themselves immediately. Unfortunately, this impatience may cost them the more important things in life, such as missing out on important family events or neglecting loved ones.

Dragons are straight-talking and direct people, sometimes to a fault. They will not hide what they truly feel, especially if something or someone displeases them. They can also be irritable and stubborn, and their big mouths and sharp tongues will singe anyone who walks by. This can get them into trouble and offend.

Dragons also find it difficult to trust. Once they do trust, you’ll have a friend for life but if that trust is broken, be prepared to suffer the Dragon’s wrath. He’ll spit fire without mercy.

Career and Working Life

Dragons have different, unique perspectives and a vast imagination that will be highly valued by others. On an intellectual-level, they are clever, bright, sharp people. This makes them great assets to the work place and you can be sure that there will never be a dull moment with a Dragon in the office. He’ll always be the one pushing the envelope, introducing new ideas and rallying everyone else to get up and go with his huge amount of energy.

It is not uncommon for a Dragon to be the first in and last out of the office – their drive to success allows them to reach the top of any chosen profession. However, their intense persistence, along with their motto of “all work, no play”, may cause them to distance themselves from friends and family. The resilience of their minds does pay off though – with their perseverance and sharpness, they can make or break empires with the sheer might of their minds.

It is not uncommon to see Dragons on one-man crusades. Their drive and passion will cause them to make their life’s work fighting for things that they believe in, whether good or bad. Teammates would do well to be aware that a Dragon may throw all caution to the wind and fly off into grand horizons that he’s dreamed up on his own.

Love and Relationships

You will either find a Dragon getting married at a young age, or choosing to stay single all their lives. In fact, the Dragon may be happier alone.

Committed bachelors and bachelorettes will never find themselves lacking in love. Instead, they will be continuously surrounded by admirers. Take heed though – they have huge egos and will be insatiable lovers. Dragons are likely to leave a trail of broken hearts in their wake.

A Dragon caught in a young romance will find themselves in a series of highs and lows. Their mystical allure and trust-issues makes them difficult to get close to, but once you’re in their hearts you will find no greater lover than the Dragon. You’ll need to be of equal if not superior intellectual prowess to keep up with a Dragon lover though. Your best bet for keeping your Dragon partner happy and by your side is if he’s constantly stimulated, mentally and physically.

Finance

The Dragon is neither a spendthrift nor a miser, but he is sharp and self-sustaining. He will work hard enough to provide himself the financial freedom to do as he pleases. The Dragon is also blessed with good fortune wherever he goes and will not suffer any real financial setbacks, no matter how gloomy things may look to the rest of the financial world. Dragons seem to always have tricks up their sleeves, which constantly gives them opportunities to venture into money-making businesses. They naturally attract wealth and are sure to prosper from them.

Social Life

When a Dragon enters the room, all eyes falls on him. His outgoing nature and appealing appearance attracts many admirers and friends. Dragons will never feel loneliness or lack company, wherever they go people will approach them – rarely the other way round. It is not unlikely for a Dragon to have many friends and social circles, but he is also careful and deliberate about who he allows to come close. Try to infringe too closely, too quickly on a Dragon’s personal space and risk being burned!

They are adaptable and flexible, and you will not hear a Dragon complain that a party is too boring. They bring great charisma and self-assurance everywhere they go. Strike a conversation with a Dragon and you will not regret it – they will be able to talk about anything under the sun, and switch deftly from one topic to another.

Be forewarned though that under their easy-going, charming facade lays a temperamental Dragon ready to lash out. They are highly critical, idealists and perfectionists – a potent combination of qualities that will become demanding, exacting and condescending if things are not to their expectations.

Life Lessons

A Dragon has plenty of things to work on, particularly in controlling their temper and arrogance. They have plenty of very worthy advice to give but they must learn to temper their delivery and realise that with just a little tact, they could be spitting out jewels instead of fire.

The Dragon also needs to learn to temper his pride and deflate his ego slightly. He does have plenty to be proud of but without practising a little humility, he is more likely to drive people away than attract them. They should strive to develop stronger bonds with others, with humility, instead of severing them for no other reason but because they can.

It would do the Dragon a lot of good – and save a lot of heartache – if he were to learn how to exert more control over his impetuous, reckless tendencies. The Dragon’s penchant for jumping into things too quickly often leaves him feeling dissatisfied or burning many bridges along the way. He should start to take a step back and learn to give more thought and assessment to things.

COMPATIBILITY

Who the Dragon will fly into the horizon with

The Dragon belongs in the same harmony trio as the Rat and Monkey, so any pairings with people born under these signs or in the hour ruled by these animals will be successful. This triangle of affinity are progress-orientated and go-getters. They will complement each other by their mutual desire to achieve and their relentless, go-getter energy and success-oriented attitudes.

The Rooster, Horse and Snake will also please the Dragon – all three are naturally intelligent, passionate and ambitious signs and will find it easy to support and work together with the high-flying Dragon. The Dragon also does well to join the more amiable Rabbit and Boar, whose ability to keep the peace and stay relaxed and happy will help to temper the Dragon’s zealousness.

Who the Dragon will want to spit fire at

The Dragon will not work well with the Dog. The Dog is too stubborn and will not bend even under the Dragon’s wrath. The Dragon will start to find him dull and unadventurous. Conversely, the slightly insecure Dog finds the Dragon arrogant and might suffer under the Dragon’s constant scrutiny and high-flying ideals.

The Dragon will not be compatible with the Ox, Tiger or Sheep either. The Ox is too obstinate for the Dragon’s liking, while the Sheep’s whining, insecure, worrisome ways will conflict with the Dragon’s zeal, ambition and courage. There will be a clash of wills with the equally headstrong Tiger.

How to work with a Dragon

The only way to work with a Dragon is to shamelessly stroke their ego. Someone like the Rabbit is capable of working well with the Dragon because his inoffensive, pleasant ways will allow him to be heard without being insulting to the Dragon.

Dragons hate being ordered about – they rather lead than to be led so you must allow them the space to take the reins. They will be impressed with those who are highly intelligent, wealthy or successful so be well prepared to have your wits about you when you’re dealing with a Dragon. Don’t waste his time for he won’t have the patience to indulge your frivolities  – be alert, sharp and impressive.

If you’re put in a position that you have to work with him, don’t jostle for power. You would do best by being supportive. If he has an idea, jump on it and help. If he has a proposal, see to it that the proposal is heard. If he is in trouble, offer assistance.

At all costs, avoid doing anything that would offend the Dragon or disturb his ego – you only risk being burnt to a crisp.

5 Positive and Negative Traits

Other Lunar Animal Signs

1. I am the Rat

2. I am the Ox

3. I am the Tiger

4. I am the Rabbit

5. I am the Snake

6. I am the Horse

7. I am the Sheep

8. I am the Monkey

9. I am the Rooster

10. I am the Dog

11. I am the Pig

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