We each react differently to the challenges that cross our paths and our reaction is highly dependent on our maturity and wisdom. Whether we withdraw, persevere, feign indifference or become angry in difficult situations, over time that reaction mechanism is ingrained in our minds and becomes second nature. The longer we “practice”, the better we become at it. Yet, it may not be the most effective way to overcome our challenges.

In numerology, the Balance Number guides us on how best to deal with difficult situations and emotional turmoil. It is usually a minor influencer in our Numerology charts until our lives are off balance, which will happen to each of us at least once or twice in our lifetimes.

Balance Number: 1

You draw strength from within and you have the ability to handle most situations in an effective manner. You tend to be a loner, keeping your problems to yourself which can be unhealthy as you become isolated from others.

Although you are confident and capable, you should take the time to listen to other views. This is a more positive attitude that will help you in the long run.

Due to your huge ego and stubborn nature, you often find it difficult to ask for help. It would benefit you to share your problems with someone whom you trust and be open to their advice. This will broaden your perspective and help you think of new ways to deal with your problems. Strength, creativity and courage are the keys to resolving your difficulties. Sometimes, the unconventional solutions are the ones that work best.

Balance Number: 2

Sensitive and emotional, you need to adopt a more tactful approach towards your problems. Your emotional outbursts are definitely not the best method as they blow the situation out of proportion.

Losing your nerves in the face of conflict is a common occurrence. You compromise too much, to the point that you allow others to influence you negatively. Be courageous and don’t allow your fear of confrontation to get in the way.

You have a huge potential to be the peacemaker. If you are able to remain calm and reflect on your situation from a broader perspective, this will help you find suitable solutions to your problems. Use your sensitivity, trust your intuition and you will be able to solve issues in a manner that leaves all parties satisfied. Therefore when dealing with any problem, finding a proper balance and working harmoniously with others is essential.

Balance Number: 3

You tend to react emotionally when difficulties arise. You may also become fixated on your way of doing things, which causes you to overlook better solutions. Worse, you do not always consider the consequences of your actions, which may result in negative outcomes.

You are a good speaker and your natural charisma influences others. Develop your verbal skills and become more articulate so that you can express your opinions and views more effectively and gain support. This is important as you tend to lose confidence when difficult situations arise.

Being tactful and controlling your speech will help you to be a good listener, which is essential. Learn to use your charisma to influence troubling situations and approach all your problems with a light heart and positivity in order to reach mutually beneficial solutions.

Balance Number: 4

An emotional person by nature, you can lose objectivity which prevents you from finding practical solutions. You can become fixated with your ideas which causes you to make premature decisions which may be inaccurate or detrimental. You need to learn how to examine a situation fully before coming to a conclusion.

Compassion and tolerance are essential qualities which you should strive to attain. To prevent your usual emotional flare ups, you must understand the benefits of employing practical and realistic approaches and realize that there are many perspectives from which to view the situation. Always face your issues with a light heart instead of being uncompromising and rigid.

Forgiveness and discipline will give you strength in your endeavors. Try putting yourself in the shoes of others to develop this type of mind.

Balance Number: 5

You are most comfortable employing conventional methods of problem solving and others often view you as rigid because you have difficulty adapting to change. The people around you will progress as time passes and if you don’t keep up with the pace, you may be left behind. Be more open and adventurous and try new methods.

You have a tendency to sweep problems under the carpet instead of trying to find a solution. At your low points, you may even try to drown your problems by indulging your senses. This attitude may cause you to pick up an unhealthy lifestyle and you are prone to substance abuse.

Have confidence and adopt a more flexible approach. You are creative and capable; all you need to do is focus and set your mind on your goals. You will find that everything is within your grasp.

Balance Number: 6

You are able to perceive the underlying issues in a conflict as well as understand situations from different points of view. Unfortunately, you are better at identifying it rather than dealing with it. This causes you to rely on others to provide solutions or comfort when the pressure builds up. You also prefer to avoid instead of facing the problem head on and you distract yourself as a defence mechanism.

You must overcome your fear of being faced with a challenging situation and learn to shoulder the responsibility. Don’t always expect others to patch things up for you, nor should you blame others for whatever it is that goes wrong in your life. Either figure out a way to deal with the problem, or accept it.

You need to realize that honesty is important and a powerful tool to resolve conflict. Your insight is your true strength; know this and have confidence in your abilities.

Balance Number: 7

You tend to deal with problems emotionally, not objectively. Thus, you may lie to yourself whenever conflict arises as you prefer to retreat into your comfort zone rather than address the problem.

Despite your reluctance to deal with conflict, you have a clear and analytical mind that allows you to see the path to resolution. Unfortunately, your insecurities slow down any attempt at reconciliation.

Get out of your cocoon and stop allowing your emotions to get the better of you. Controlling your emotions is key. Once you realize that your doubts and insecurities always get in your way, you will be surprised at how quickly you are able to resolve issues for the well being of all.

Balance Number: 8

You are a natural leader but you must learn how to use this power in a more positive fashion rather than for your own benefit. You can be manipulative, although you are perfectly capable of inspiring and influencing others positively as well.

Your problem is that you lack patience, and often you rush into things or use underhanded tactics regardless of the consequences. Your tactless and ruthless ways may even cost you your integrity.

Your lack of confidence worsens your ability to problem-solve as you become confused and nervous whenever things don’t go your way. Your impatience may even lead you to cut corners, which will eventually cause more trouble in the long run.

It is important for you to develop a balance. As you have considerable power, you need stability to prevent you from misusing your influence. Learn to see from other points of view and avoid being domineering.

Balance Number: 9

You are innately compassionate and understanding but your weakness is that you often distance yourself. People may mistake you for an introvert; however, although solitude is your preference, you never fail to be there whenever someone needs your help.

Your empathy is incredible and you immediately understand the other person’s problems, even if you have never been in their shoes. On the downside, you have a tendency to be arrogant as you feel superior to others.

Keeping a good balance is key. You must learn humility and get more involved with people instead of being aloof. It is not just about understanding how others feel; more importantly is for you to take a genuine interest in them and care for them as a person.

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